In order to be truly authentic I needed to acknowledge and accept myself as a gay, mixed race human being -- something that many members of American society despise. My therapist, Mike Holtby, someone I hold in the very highest regard, has brought me to that level of acceptance. My gratitude to Mike is truly endless.  B.G.

You saved my life, and helped me find a life I could live with. I am forever grateful, and always will be. I wish everyone could see you. I remember having fantasies of bringing both my sisters to your office, and saying: "help them to do what you helped me to do." So, a huge thank you is in order. Thank you for helping me find myself. Of course I still struggle with certain things, and always will, but I love and value the "me" I am today, the "me" I found in your group.    Steve P.