I've been to at least 3 therapists before I found you, Mike, and I'm so glad I did. The previous 3 therapists didn't correctly diagnose my ex's condition, even after several months. You did so on the first session. You took out the DSM-IV and went through line by line until it sunk in that my ex did have a personality disorder, and that I made the right decision leaving the relationship of 7 years. You also helped me navigate subsequent relationships after. I now am in a sound relationship and feel more confident about the decisions I make about my romantic life. Occasionally, I refer to you as my "crystal ball", your wealth of life experience and insights helps guide me in making better decisions especially when I'm at the crossroads pondering my options. You're able to tell me what to expect if I take one path versus another and I am so glad I found you. I appreciate your recommendation for divorce lawyer, and the connection in Vietnam. I hope to keep you around for life ;). T.A.